Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Do I have that effect on people?

Remember him? Shortly after it became apparent that my two or three phone calls to him were not going to be answered, he deleted his profile from connexion. I haven't heard from him, I don't think I will, but I wonder, is the effect I have on people to just make them run?

Being bicultural can be a curse, I feel that people just totally and completely misread me. Directness seems to be a germ that gay men run from.

A.B.

2 comments:

tim said...

Gay men can be scared of someone who is very forward. It brings up all the insecurities of hiding your true self growing up. We are more comfortable with running from being open because we are so used to trying to be closed.

DEREK said...

Just found your blog, to bad for him, missed out a chance it sounds like in getting to know a great guy.